Dawn Porter: Free Lover

Oh god its so late again. Forgive me unforgiving peoples of the internet.

Here at YourFace we love a bit of Dawn Porter. She’s our favourite ‘investigative’ journalist who jumps in feet first into all sorts of alternative lifestyles. We’ve seen her indulging her Sapphic side, getting her kit off and looking at the joys of pregnancy (all previously reviewed here), but now in the first of a four part new series of documentaries, Dawn visits a free love commune and learns all about polygymy.

Basically Dawn goes to a freaky German love commune where they all hang out (sometimes not just figuratively) and have multiple partners. So far so good. What I really love about Dawn is that she really gets into her documentaries and after some prudishness about having more than one lover she decides that she’ll immerse herself in the lifestyle. And immerse herself she does. In hot oil. With some naked germans.

Sounds hot? It wasn’t, but I admire her guts. Dawn, despite her reservations, tried to experience the polyamorous lifestyle as fairly as possible and didn’t once fall into the trap of focussing far too much on all the shagging that was going on.

I don’t really feel the need to explain the whole programme as suffice to say Dawn didn’t decide to take multiple lovers and ended by firmly stating that she is a one person woman. What I really think deserves the most mention is Dawn herself. I’m very rarely impressed by journalists trying to ’shock’ and Dawn so easily could have gone down that route with her choice of subject, but luckily she continues to produce thoughtful, intelligent and genuinely interesting pieces of work.

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Claire is a twenty-something year old lady writer, media whore and technophile. She is yet to find her proper vocation in life and every day brings a new idea. Today? Firewoman or Vampire Slayer. Tomorrow? Who knows. Claire LOVES Doctor Who, Buffy, novels, adaptation, music of all kinds and cheese and dislikes untidiness and un-sanded wood. Stalk her on Twitter @Blakeborough or email claire@yourfaceisanadvert.com.
  • Blackett
    I do love Dawn and how she completely immerses herself in a subjet matter and not in the stand offish way that Louis Theroux would (also love him too).

    When it coems to this area of free love and polyamorous (oh god my spelling is bad at the best of times I have no hope with that word) there is a world to explore and it would have been very easy for her to go into a polly relationship house and sit with them for a week and it would have been a dull dull documentary but no no out Lucy went and found the oddest people she could. I found the idea of a 'love commune' a little odd and it seemed rather bleak and more than a little cultish, and as couples would actually pair off and set up home togethre this seemed less like poly relationships and more like distilled society.

    The section in America seemed relively normal and maybe love/sex classes should be seen as the norm, although having a random stranger stroking my head and telling me how beautiful I am doesn't sound like my idea of night out.

    My favourite thing about Lucy is her asides or when she talkes to her private camera. 'Why cant I have a normal job?' being my favourite qoute this week.
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